Sunday, September 7, 2008

A day to remember

September 7th is not a good day in our family. Seven years ago my beloved husband, Bill, lost his fight with cancer. Four days later came 9/11. The World Trade Center was a place that he loved, glorying in the views and the wonderful people we always seemed to meet there. It's almost as if my little tragedy is subsumed into the much larger US one and every year there are reminders in the media of this time in my life and I feel connected with many other people who lost their loved ones on that day. I suppose I wouldn't have it any other way - if there has to be a time I feel bad, I may as well share it with thousands of others! I visited 'Ground Zero' two years ago and that hole in the ground sums up the way I sometimes feel about my life. Roll on the infinity pool!

I usually try to be out of the country on this particular date but haven't quite managed it this year - and in a way I'm glad. My eldest grandson, Allan, has just got engaged to Kerry, a wonderful young lady, whom I am delighted to welcome into our family. So today has been a day of celebration - an emotional day in every way. God bless you both!

Tomorrow I'm off to Croatia with my friend Barbara. We spend three days in Omis and then off to Dubrovnik. Oh, the thought of some sunshine and escaping from the downpours of the past few weeks - I feel as if I have webbed feet!

So - I'll be off the blogisphere for a while, soaking up the sun and recharging my batteries. See you when I get back!


Kitty said...

Thinking of you. I know how powerful anniversaries can be, even when you think 'I'll be ok this time', it still sneaks up on you.

I hope you have a wonderful holiday.

Take care. :-) x

Anonymous said...

Have a lovely break - see you when you get back.

Carol said...

Have a wondeful break, enjoy the sunshine

Mary said...

Have a wonderful holiday! What a fabulous place to visit!


Hope your having a wonderful time on your hols.

Jackie said...

I was sure I'd left a comment..hope you had a lovely time. See you soon